
The College Visit
By Deborah L. Carter
If you’re the
parent of a college-aged son or daughter, you most likely spent your college
years deprived of certain conveniences we now take for granted: cell phones,
the internet, bottled water, and the campus visit. Relatively unknown during
the seventies and eighties, the pre-application campus visit in recent years
has claimed its spot as one of the key tools in the college search and
application process.
The benefits
of the campus visit are significant, and vary greatly depending upon when in
the process the visits are made and how much planning is done beforehand. The
timing and extent of campus visits are governed largely by: a) your combined
calendars; b) your pocketbook; and c) the relative “health” of your college
application plan. Coordinating schedules among parents and students is no small
feat, especially during the school year when work, classes, homework and sports
commitments fill every square inch of the family calendar. While it’s great to
visit a campus during the school year while classes are in session, that’s not
always possible, and a summer visit is preferable to no visit. Depending upon
your budget, you can devise an approach that combines physical visits with
“virtual” online visits. Plan ahead, and include a number of campus visits as
excursions to an already scheduled annual summer vacation or family holiday
trip. Even if neither your schedule nor your budget allows for visits to all
colleges on your Top Ten List, a few well-planned visits can provide much
useful information to help decide important basics such as: public vs. private;
large vs. small; urban vs. rural; engineering vs. oboe, and so on. Take day
trips to in-state schools, even though you’ve driven past them before. Remember
that a campus visit can tell you as much about what you don’t like as what you
do.
Among all the
other more mundane or excruciating tasks associated with the college
application process, campus visits stand out as an opportunity for some fun and
excitement. Yet, we all have seen the less than jovial faces of parents and
students as they collide their way through a myriad of college tours and info
sessions. You can increase your chances for a successful campus visit and
reduce your anxiety levels by following a few simple suggestions:
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The most useful campus visits will be those that are conducted somewhere in the
middle of the college search and application process, rather than during the
amorphous beginning or the hectic post-acceptance period. Ideally, the serious
college-bound sophomore or junior will have done some “due diligence”, using a
combination of print, web, verbal and/or professional resources, to compile a
preliminary college list. From this, you can develop one or more distilled
regional short lists, including potential favorites, legacy schools, and
representative examples of the major determining factors such as size,
selectivity, cost, location and areas of study. Plot your regional short list
on a map in order to determine whether you can plan a special multi-city
college swing, or whether visits to a sampling of these schools can be
incorporated into already planned business or pleasure travel.
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Decide whether your trip will be by air, land or sea, and start to look at some
online travel deals, remembering that flexible travel dates will allow for the
best fares and rates. Make sure that you are familiar not only with the basic
profile information of each school (location, size, selectivity, tuition cost,
areas of study, student body profile, student-teacher ratio), but also if and
when organized campus tours, information sessions, or admissions interviews are
offered. Be aware that, although summer is a popular time for campus visits,
every college and university sets its own schedule, and often you must register
in advance for your visit. If available, personal interviews or meetings with
deans, department heads or athletic coaches will require appointments made as
far in advance as possible. Consult college websites for monthly campus
tour/info session schedules, or contact the admissions offices prior to
finalizing your travel itinerary.
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Even if you think that you can get a good feel for the campus on your own, it’s
a good idea to go on the organized campus tour and attend the information
session sponsored by the college office of admissions. The tour will be led by
a well-informed and cordial student representative specially recruited for this
purpose by the admissions office. At most colleges, these are very popular and
coveted positions among students, and though usually overwhelmingly positive,
most student tour guides welcome questions and conversation, especially from
prospective students. Ask about class size, relationship with professors,
campus issues, weekend pursuits, dorm life and food. The info sessions are part
PR, part process and part Q&A. While much of the information can be gleaned
as easily from the university view book, application and website, the live info
session at a given college provides a valuable peek into the personality,
demeanor and attitudes of its administrators. Usually well-attended, this
gathering also gives you an opportunity to see who else is considering this
school.
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While you can compile a multitude of facts and figures about a particular
college or university from a variety of locally available resources, there’s no
better way to assess the personality of a place than by being there. Whether
you develop a series of impressions, rate items on a checklist, or are struck
with an image of the perfect fit or the overwhelming desire to strike this one
off your list, the campus visit provides you with the tools. So make the most
of your visit by entertaining some or all of the following, or think of your
own:
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After each campus visit, record your impressions. Don’t think that you’ll be
able to remember details or distinguish among colleges after you get back home.
Develop a chart or matrix or journal entry system, depending upon what works
best for you. Remember to allow for some sort of rating scale on those factors
that matter most to you. Chances are good that you will be creating a new
“short list” based upon the input you received from your campus visits. Certain
schools will rise to the top, others will fall off the list, and yet others
might be added based upon common factors now considered important to your
ultimate decision to apply.
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Following is a word of advice to parents accompanying their students on the
campus visit. As a parent, you certainly will develop your own likes and
dislikes along the way, and no doubt will offer your unsolicited opinion. You
most definitely will ask a dumb or embarrassing question during the info
session or campus tour, and will notice that your student is no longer
positioned close enough to you to be identified as your offspring. You might
wish that you had actually looked into the cost of tuition at a particular college
rather than relying on your student’s assessment that $28,000 per year was well
within the family budget. However, in order to optimize the likelihood of
success during your campus visits, resist at all cost the temptation to elicit
any remotely immediate feedback from your son or daughter. To the prospective
student, this is an intensely private activity. The more enamored or excited
about a particular school, the riskier the outward expression of desire. So be
patient and be confident that with proper preparation and execution, the campus
visit can be as useful a tool in the college search and application process as.
. .well. . . the cell phone, the internet or that bottle of water. Bon voyage!
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2005 COLLEGE CONNECTION, LLC
Deborah Carter is Director
of CollegeConnection,
LLC, a company specializing in student-centered college search and application
consulting services. Contact Deborah at info@CollegeConnection.cc